When people fail or things go wrong, you always have a choice in how you deal with it. That's far more important than what's going wrong right now. If life has one thing in store for you, it's this: storms. So don't waste your energy wishing yourself "sunshine, lollipops and rainbows" (or "peace, joy, pancakes"), but do the only thing that makes sense: get stormy inside. The first step is to let go of control over others.